Infraction: 7. Do not beg for hand-holding.
Message to User:
Use simulationcraft to generate stat weights for your own character's gear and talent setup. They're found under the "scaling" tab.
You use the etched because that hit rating that you can gain from the gem is more stats you can reforge to on your gear for a dps gain, however minimal, whereas stamina provides no dps increase.
Thanks, what about the stat weights?